Wednesday 28 December 2011

LOVE IN ACTION


LOVE IN ACTION
One night a man came to our house and told me, “There is a family with eight children. They have not eaten for days”. I took some food and I went. When I finally came to the family, I saw the faces of those little children disfigured by hunger.
There was no sorrow or sadness in their faces, just the deep pain of hunger. I gave the rice to the mother. She divided it in two, and went out, carrying half the rice with her. When she came back, I asked her, “Where did you go?” She gave me this simple answer, “To my neighbors-they are hungry also.”
I was not surprised that she gave-because poor people are usually generous. But I was surprised that she knew they were hungry. As a rule, when we are suffering, we are so focused on ourselves we have no time for others.


Tuesday 27 December 2011

poor but intelligent





Lateral Thinking

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Many years ago in a small Indian village,

A farmer had the misfortune of owing a large sum of money to a village moneylender. The Moneylender, who was old and ugly, fancied the farmer's beautiful Daughter. So he proposed a bargain.


He said he would forgo the farmer's debt if he could marry his Daughter. Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the Proposal.
So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let Providence decide the matter. He told them that he would put a black Pebble and a white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl would have to pick one pebble from the bag. 

1) If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and her father's debt would be forgiven. 

2) If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven. 
3) But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into Jail. 
They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer's field. As They talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles. As he Picked them up, the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two Black pebbles and put them into the bag. 

He then asked the girl to pick A pebble from the bag. 

Now, imagine that you were standing in the field. What would you have Done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her, what would you Have told her? 

Careful analysis would produce three possibilities: 

1 The girl should refuse to take a pebble. 
2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag And expose the money-lender as a cheat. 

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order To save her father from his debt and imprisonment. 
Take a moment to ponder over the story. The above story is used with The hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral And logical thinking. 

The girl's dilemma cannot be solved with Traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences if she chooses The above logical answers. 
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Well, here is what she did .... 

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble. Without Looking at it, she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path Where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles. 

"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said. "But never mind, if you look into the Bag for the one that is left, you will be able to tell which pebble I Picked." 

Since the remaining pebble is black, it must be assumed that she had Picked the white one. And since the money-lender dared not admit his Dishonesty, the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into An extremely advantageous one. 


MORAL OF THE STORY

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Most complex problems do have a solution. It is only that we don't Attempt to think.

HUSBAND'S LAST WISH


There was a man who had worked hard all of his life and saved all of his money.
He was a real miser when it came to money.
When he became ill and knew he was dying he said to his wife, "Now listen, when I die,
I want you to take all my money and place it in the casket with me.
I want to take my money to the afterlife."
His wife gave her promise that when he died,
she would put all his money into the casket with him.
A week later he died. On the day of her husband’s
funeral his wife was sitting next to her best friend
and just before the undertaker closed the casket she called out
“Please, Wait a minute!” walked over
to the casket and placed a small brass finished box inside.
The undertaker then locked the casket down and rolled it away.
The next day her friend came around to visit and said,
"I hope you weren't crazy enough to put all of his money in the casket."
“I promised.” The widow replied “I'm a good Christian
and I couldn’t lie I promised him I would put all of his
money into the casket with him, so I did.”
"You mean to tell me you put every cent of his money in that casket with him?"
"Yes” said his wife . "I got it all together, put it into my account
and I wrote him a cheque, I thought if he can cash it he can spend it”
THANKS TO ASHA WHO SEND IT BY MAIL

Monday 12 December 2011

Ducks Quack - Eagles Soar

No one can make you serve customers well....that's because great service is a choice. Harvey Mackay tells a wonderful story about a cab driver that proved this point. He was waiting in line for a ride at the airport. When a cab pulled up, the first thing Harvey noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for Harvey .

He handed my friend a laminated card and said: 'I'm Wally, your driver. While I'm loading your bags in the trunk I'd like you to read my mission statement.' 
Taken aback, Harvey read the card. It said: Wally's Mission Statement: To get my customers to their destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment. 

This blew Harvey away. Especially when he noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean! As he slid behind the wheel, Wally said, 'Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf.' My friend said jokingly, 'No, I'd prefer a soft drink.' Wally smiled and said, 'No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke, water and orange juice..' Almost stuttering, Harvey said, 'I'll take a Diet Coke.' 

Handing him his drink, Wally said, 'If you'd like something to read, I have The Wall Street Journal, Time, Sports Illustrated and USA Today..'As they were pulling away, Wally handed my friend another laminated card, 'These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you'd like to listen to the radio.' And as if that weren't enough, Wally told Harvey that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for him. Then he advised Harvey of the best route to his destination for that time of day. He also let him know that he'd be happy to chat and tell him about some of the sights or, if Harvey preferred, to leave him with his own thoughts.. 

'Tell me, Wally,' my amazed friend asked the driver, 'have you always served customers like this?' 

Wally smiled into the rear view mirror. 'No, not always. In fact, it's only been in the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard the personal growth guru, Wayne Dyer, on the radio one day. He had just written a book called You'll See It When You Believe It. Dyer said that if you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you'll rarely disappoint yourself. He said, 'Stop complaining! Differentiate yourself from your competition. Don't be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd.' 

'That hit me right between the eyes,' said Wally. 'Dyer was really talking about me. I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I decided to make some changes. I put in a few at a time. When my customers responded well, I did more.' 'I take it that has paid off for you,' Harvey said. 

'It sure has,' Wally replied. 'My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year. This year I'll probably quadruple it. You were lucky to get me today. I don't sit at cabstands anymore. My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on my answering machine. If I can't pick them up myself, I get a reliable cabbie friend to do it and I take a piece of the action.' 

Wally was phenomenal. He was running a limo service out of a Yellow Cab. I've probably told that story to more than fifty cab drivers over the years, and only two took the idea and ran with it. Whenever I go to their cities, I give them a call. The rest of the drivers quacked like ducks and told me all the reasons they couldn't do any of what I was suggesting. 

Wally the Cab Driver made a different choice. He decided to stop quacking like ducks and start soaring like eagles. 

How about us? Smile, and the whole world smiles with you. 

The ball is in our court! 

A man reaps what he sows. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up... let us do good to all people. 

Ducks Quack, Eagles Soar.

BE INDIAN BUY INDIAN


YOU CAN MAKE A HUGE DIFFERENCE TO THE INDIAN ECONOMY BY FOLLOWING FEW SIMPLE STEPS:-

Please spare a couple of minutes here for the sake of India.

I got this article from one of my friends, but it's true. I can see this in day to day life.

Here's a small example:-

Before 12 months 1 US $ = INR 39
After 12 months, now 1 $ = INR 50

Do you think US Economy is booming? No, but Indian Economy is Going Down.

Our economy is in your hands....

INDIAN economy is in a crisis. Our country like many other ASIAN countries, is undergoing a severe economic crunch. Many INDIAN industries are closing down. The INDIAN economy is in a crisis and if we do not take proper steps to control those, we will be in a critical situation.

More than 30,000 crore rupees of foreign exchange are being siphoned out of our country on products such as cosmetics, snacks, tea, beverages, etc... which are grown, produced and consumed here.

A cold drink that costs only 70 / 80 paisa to produce, is sold for Rs.9 and a major chunk of profits from these are sent abroad. This is a serious drain on INDIAN economy.

We have nothing against Multinational companies, but to protect our own interests we request everybody to use INDIAN products only atleast for the next two years. With the rise in petrol prices, if we do not do this, the Rupee will devalue further and we will end up paying much more for the same products in the near future.

What you can do about it?

1. Buy only products manufactured by WHOLLY INDIAN COMPANIES.
2. ENROLL as many people as possible for this cause.....

Each individual should become a leader for this awareness. This is the only way to save our country from severe economic crisis. You don't need to give-up your lifestyle. You just need to choose an alternate product.

All categories of products are available from WHOLLY INDIAN COMPANIES.

LIST OF PRODUCTS

COLD DRINKS:-

DRINK LEMON JUICE, FRESH FRUIT JUICES, CHILLED LASSI (SWEET OR SOUR), BUTTER MILK, COCONUT WATER, JAL JEERA, ENERJEE, and MASALA MILK...

INSTEAD OF COCA COLA, PEPSI, LIMCA, MIRINDA, SPRITE

BATHING SOAP:-
USE CINTHOL & OTHER GODREJ BRANDS, SANTOOR, WIPRO SHIKAKAI, MYSORE SANDAL, MARGO, NEEM, EVITA, MEDIMIX, GANGA , NIRMA BATH & CHANDRIKA

INSTEAD OF LUX, LIFEBUOY, REXONA, LIRIL, DOVE, PEARS, HAMAM, LESANCY, CAMAY, PALMOLIVE

TOOTH PASTE:-
USE NEEM, BABOOL, PROMISE, VICO VAJRADANTI, PRUDENT, DABUR PRODUCTS, MISWAK

INSTEAD OF COLGATE, CLOSE UP, PEPSODENT, CIBACA, FORHANS, MENTADENT.

TOOTH BRUSH: -
USE PRUDENT, AJANTA , PROMISE

INSTEAD OF COLGATE, CLOSE UP, PEPSODENT, FORHANS, ORAL-B

SHAVING CREAM:-
USE GODREJ, EMAMI

INSTEAD OF PALMOLIVE, OLD SPICE, GILLETE

BLADE:-
USE SUPERMAX, TOPAZ, LAZER, ASHOKA

INSTEAD OF SEVEN-O -CLOCK, 365, GILLETTE

TALCUM POWDER:-
USE SANTOOR, GOKUL, CINTHOL, WIPRO BABY POWDER, BOROPLUS

INSTEAD OF PONDS, OLD SPICE, JOHNSON'S BABY POWDER, SHOWER TO SHOWER

MILK POWDER:-
USE INDIANA, AMUL, AMULYA

INSTEAD OF ANIKSPRAY, MILKANA, EVERYDAY MILK, MILKMAID.

SHAMPOO:-
USE LAKME, NIRMA, VELVETTE

INSTEAD OF HALO, ALL CLEAR, NYLE, SUNSILK, HEAD AND SHOULDERS, PANTENE

MOBILE CONNECTIONS:-
USE BSNL, AIRTEL

INSTEAD OF HUTCH

Food Items:-
Eat Tandoori chicken, Vada Pav, Idli, Dosa, Puri, Uppuma

INSTEAD OF KFC, MACDONALD'S, PIZZA HUT, A&W

Every INDIAN product you buy makes a big difference. It saves INDIA. Let us take a firm decision today.

BUY INDIAN TO BE INDIAN - We are not against of foreign products.

WE ARE NOT ANTI-MULTINATIONAL. WE ARE TRYING TO SAVE OUR NATION. EVERY DAY IS A STRUGGLE FOR A REAL FREEDOM. WE ACHIEVED OUR INDEPENDENCE AFTER LOSING MANY LIVES.
THEY DIED PAINFULLY TO ENSURE THAT WE LIVE PEACEFULLY. THE CURRENT TREND IS VERY THREATENING.

MULTINATIONALS CALL IT GLOBALIZATION OF INDIAN ECONOMY. FOR INDIANS LIKE YOU AND ME, IT IS RE-COLONIZATION OF INDIA. THE COLONIST'S LEFT INDIA THEN. BUT THIS TIME, THEY WILL MAKE SURE THEY DON'T MAKE ANY MISTAKES.

WHO WOULD LIKE TO LET A "GOOSE THAT LAYS GOLDEN EGGS" SLIP AWAY?

PLEASE REMEMBER: POLITICAL FREEDOM IS USELESS WITHOUT ECONOMIC INDEPENDENCE

RUSSIA, S.KOREA, MEXICO - THE LIST IS VERY LONG!! LET US LEARN FROM THEIR EXPERIENCE AND FROM OUR HISTORY. LET US DO THE DUTY OF EVERY TRUE INDIAN.

FINALLY, IT'S OBVIOUS THAT YOU CAN'T GIVE UP ALL OF THE ITEMS MENTIONED ABOVE. SO GIVE UP AT LEAST ONE ITEM FOR THE SAKE OF OUR COUNTRY!

We would be sending useless forwards to our friends daily. Instead, please forward this mail to all your friends to create awareness.

"LITTLE DROPS MAKE A GREAT OCEAN."

PLEASE TRY TO BE AN INDIAN.....

Tuesday 6 December 2011

ONE SET OF MANNERS


A distinguished lady, noted for the fine family from which she came, was once presented at the court of the Queen of Holland. 

Later, the wife of a minor government official asked her how she happened to know the proper way to behave, before a queen. 

“I really didn’t know,” the woman replied. “But I have only one set of manners and I use them all the time.” We should have one set of manners, too. We should always be gentle, kind and most of all, loving. 

Treat the rich and the poor, the attractive and the unattractive all the same, because each is a reflection of God Himself. And how you treat them, is a reflection of what kind of a person you are!

Friday 2 December 2011

Person in your life


People come into  your life  for a  reason, 
a  season or  a lifetime. 
When  you know  which  one it is  you, 
will  know  what to do for that  person.. 
  
  
When  someone is in your life for a Reason, 
it  is  usually  to meet  a  need  you have expressed, 
They  have  come to assist  you through a difficulty, 
to  provide  you with guidance and  support, 
To  aid  you  physically, or spiritually. 
They  may  seem  like  a  godsend  and they are. 
  
  
They  are  there  for  the reason  you need them 
to  be, Then , without  any  worngdoing on, 
your  part  or at an inconvenient time , 
this  person  will  say or do something to bring, 
the  relationship  to  an end. 
  
  
Sometimes  they die, Sometimes  they walk away, Sometimes  they act up  and force  you to  take a 
stand. 
  
What  we  must  realize  is  that  our need 
has been  met, our desire  fulfilled, 
their  work  is done. 
The prayer you sent up has been answered  and, 
now  it is time  to move on. 
  
Some  people  come into  your life for a Season 
because  your turn  has  come  to share, 
grow  or  learn. 
  
They  bring  you an experience  of peace or, 
make  you laugh, 
They  may teach  you  something  you  have never 
done, They  usually  give  you an unbelievable, 
amount  of joy, Believe  it , it is real. 
But  only for a season. 
  
  
Lifetime  relationship  teach  you lifetime lessons, 
things  you must  build  upon in order to have 
a solid  emotional  foundation, 
Your  job  is to accept  the lesson, 
love  the person  and  put  what you have learned, 
to use  in all other  relationship  and  areas of your life, it  is  said  that love is  blind but friendship is clairvoyant. 
  
Thank  you  for being a part of my life 
whether  you were  a reason , a season or a lifetime. 
  

10 TIPS TO INTERNET POSTING


When you post online, the name of the game is usually to share
your ideas and opinions, or even snippets from your personal
life.

It should be fun.

Unfortunately, online posting also opens the door for a whole
series of potential wrongdoings, from slander and online
bullying, to identity theft and crimes that target young
people.

Still, these days, most of us want to and do post online. So,
here at Scambusters, we've put together our 10 Rules to make
online posting safer.

1. First, Golden Rule #1. Never post anything -- words,
pictures, videos, links, emails, blogs, comments and tweets --
that you're not happy for the whole wide world to view.
Because that's the potential of the Internet. There is no
hiding place.

No matter how secure or obscure a site is, there is always the
risk that it can be hacked, and no matter how little interest
you think other people would have in what you said or did,
someone you thought you could trust may forward or link to the
contents you intended to be private.

2. Golden Rule #2. This follows directly from Rule #1: Think
before you post. This was the catchphrase for the 2010 Safer
Internet Day campaign, aimed mainly at young people. But it
applies to all of us every day.

Some other "think first" tips:

* Don't post things that aren't true or allegations that you
can't prove -- you could land in legal hot water.

* Don't victimize or bully other individuals (anonymously or
not). You could cause a personal tragedy and end up in jail.

* Don't fire off a comment based on an instant gut reaction
that you might regret later.

* Don't copy someone else's comments or ideas and pass them
off as your own.

* Watch your language!

3. Names. Be careful how you use your name. Avoid using your
full name. Even a nickname could spell trouble -- for
instance, if it says something suggestive about your
character, if it's a name you already use with others who know
your real identity, or if it's made up from your real name
(say, from your initials). First names are best, unless yours
is extremely unusual.

These days, many people do use their full names for online
posting -- on social media sites and blogs for example. Just
know that in doing so you're raising the risk of becoming an
identity theft victim.

4. Photos. Bearing in mind Golden Rule #1, don't post photos
you wouldn't want everyone to see. Full face, high resolution
photos may be "snagged" (copied) and used for identity theft.
Some people don't know how easy this is to do with any photo,
with just a couple of clicks. Also, as a matter of etiquette,
don't post photos of others without their permission, unless
you're prepared for the consequences if the other person
doesn't think it's funny.

For preference, use photos in which identities are obscured.
And, as a general rule, don't post photos of children online
(especially not other people's children without permission).
If you want to share photos of your kids, put them in a
private online album, accessible by invitation or password. Or
email them directly to your friends.

5. Addresses. Keep your postal address and your main email
address private. That doesn't guarantee it won't fall into the
wrong hands -- postal addresses, for instance, are a matter of
public record. Set up and use a "disposable" email address for
posting -- either one you can delete if it gets into the hands
of spahammers (intentionally misspelled) or a different one
for each time you have to give it.

By the way, you can easily give away your address accidentally
-- by posting a photo of yourself outside your home.

6. Phone number. Why would you ever want to give out your
phone number to the rest of the world? OK, crooks might be
able to find it in a phone book, but to prevent identify theft
or even abusive calls, don't post online.

7. Comments. We all have a point of view on pretty much
everything we read on the Internet. If you want to post online
with a comment, many sites ask for your name and email address
which, they say, is not for disclosure. Why take the risk? Use
your first name or even a made-up name, and a temporary email
address.

And apply Golden Rule #2 -- think before you post. Usually,
you can't take back what you said. Even deleting your comment
doesn't guarantee it hasn't already been read and stored
somewhere else.

8. Keep it closed. As with the child-photo guidance given
above, consider having a closed group on social networking
sites that can only be accessed by invited users.

9. Read the fine print. Most sites where you can post online
comments have a set of rules about how they can use your
comments and any personal details you provide about yourself.
These rules are usually viewable via a clickable link to
"Privacy Policy." Make a point of reading this before posting.
And if there isn't a privacy policy, beware!

10. Don't tell. Don't give information about your planned
movements which would let a burglar know when you're not at
home. See these useful Scambusters issues about posting your
whereabouts online and about protecting yourself from
burglars.

And don't give other information that would not only help
identify you but also provides useful material to ID theft
crooks -- like your car registration (or even a photo of you
with your identifiable car), Social Security number (duh, of
course), your age, and even your marital status.

All of this info can be used to build a "picture" of you for
identity theft.

By following these 10 rules you can still have fun when you
post online, and still get your ideas across without putting
yourself or your identity at risk.

Saturday 26 November 2011

The Never End Night


A Man Walked All Through The Night , Searching For Himself, He Looked Up To The Sky Asking The Lord , "What Should I do "? 

The Lord replied , My Beautiful Child , It Is Not Me You Need To Find , It Is Yourself".
This Frustrated The Man, He Looked To The Ground And kept Walking...
His Feet Were Sore And Swollen And He Was Very Tired , But He Walked On...
He Came Upon A Canyon He Wanted To Cross , But There Was No Bridge...
He Looked To The Sky Again , Asking Lord,
How Am I Supposed To Cross This Canyon?"
The Lord Replied , My Dear Son , I Know Your Feet Are Sore..
I Also Know You're Tired , But If You Want To Cross This Canyon , You Will Have To Walk To The Bottom And Up The Other Side"., This Really Frustrated The Man, He Cursed The Lord For Not Helping Him...
The Lord Replied , Son , It Is Men Like You That Have No Courage Or Will To Walk , You Expect Me To Carry You,Well , My Son I Will Walk With You Not Carry You.
I Willl Guide You , Not Take You For It Is You Who Has To Find Yourself.
So Take My Hand And Walk On."
The Man Walked All Through The Night
With No Strength At All , But Now He Had
Courage...

The Man Looked To The Lord And Said , Lord It Has Been Many Nights , But I Now See The Sun , It Is Now Thar I am At Peace With Myself".
The Lord Replied , "My Beautiful Child , You Have Faced Many Challenges On Your Journey
And Overcame Each Of Them..
You Have Found What You Are Looking For,
Be Free And Sound , Stay Within Yourself...

Eat Less Rice!



An Interesting Article I read in web:
The human body was never meant to consume rice! You see, our genes have hardly changed in more than 30,000 years. However, our food choices and lifestyle have changed dramatically. The caveman would hardly recognize our food or way of life.

Caveman food was never cooked as fire was not yet tamed. Thus, he ate only those foods that you can eat without treatment with or by fire. He ate fruits, vegetables, fish (sushi anyone:), eggs, nuts and meat. Yes, even meat! You can even eat meat raw if you were starving in the forest. You have the necessary enzymes to digest meat.

However, rice, like wheat and corn, cannot be eaten raw. It must be cooked. Even if you were starving in the desert, you cannot eat rice in the raw form.. This is because we do not have the system of enzymes to break rice down. You were never meant to eat rice. To make matters worse, you not only eat rice, but also make it the bulk of your food.

In some parts of Asia, rice forms up to 85% of the plate. Even if you take rice, keep it to a minimum. Remember, it is only for your tongue - not your body. Actually, rice and other grains like wheat and corn are actually worse than sugar. There are many reasons:

Rice becomes sugar - lots of it!
This is a fact that no nutritionist can deny: rice is chemically no different from sugar. One bowl of cooked rice is the caloric equal of 10 teaspoons of sugar. This does not matter whether it is white, brown or herbal rice. Brown rice is richer in fibre, some B vitamins and minerals but it is still the caloric equal of 10 teaspoons of sugar. To get the same 10 teaspoons of sugar, you need to consume lots of kangkong-10 bowls of it.

Rice is digested to become sugar.
Rice cannot be digested before it is thoroughly cooked. However, when thoroughly cooked, it becomes sugar and spikes circulating blood sugar within half an hour-almost as quickly as it would if you took a sugar candy. Rice is very low in the 'rainbow of anti-oxidants. '

This complete anti-oxidant rainbow is necessary for the effective and safe utilization of sugar. Fruits come with a sugar called fructose. However, they are not empty calories as the fruit is packed with a whole host of other nutrients that help its proper assimilation and digestion.

Rice has no fibre.
The fibre of the kangkong fills you up long before your blood sugar spikes. This is because the fibre bulks and fills up your stomach. Since white rice has no fibre, you end up eating lots of 'calorie dense' food before you get filled up. Brown rice has more fibre but still the same amount of sugar.

Rice is tasteless-sugar is sweet.
There is only so much that you can eat at one sitting. How many teaspoons of sugar can you eat before you feel like throwing up? Could you imagine eating 10 teaspoons of sugar in one seating?

Rice is always the main part of the meal.
While sugar may fill your dessert or sweeten your coffee, it will never be the main part of any meal. You could eat maybe two to three teaspoons of sugar at one meal. However, you could easily eat the equal value of two to three bowls (20-30 teaspoons) of sugar in one meal. I am always amused when I see someone eat sometimes five bowls of rice (equals 50 teaspoons of sugar) and then asks for tea tarik kurang manis!

There is no real 'built in' mechanism for us to prevent overeating of rice:
How much kangkong can you eat?
How much fried chicken can you eat?
How much steamed fish can you eat?
Think about that!

In one seating, you cannot take lots of chicken, fish or cucumber, but you can take lots of rice. Eating rice causes you to eat more salt. As rice is tasteless, you tend to consume more salt-another villain when it comes to high blood pressure. You tend to take more curry that has salt to help flavor rice. We also tend to consume more ketchup and soy sauce which are also rich in salt.

Eating rice causes you to drink less water.
The more rice you eat, the less water you will drink as there is no mechanism to prevent the overeating of rice. Rice, wheat and corn come hidden in our daily food. As rice is tasteless, it tends to end up in other foods that substitute rice like rice flour, noodles and bread. We tend to eat the hidden forms which still get digested into sugar.

Rice, even when cooked, is difficult to digest.
Can't eat raw rice? Try eating rice half cooked. Contrary to popular belief, rice is very difficult to digest. It is 'heavy stuff'. If you have problems with digestion, try skipping rice for a few days. You will be amazed at how the problem will just go away.

Rice prevents the absorption of several vitamins and minerals.
Rice when taken in bulk will reduce the absorption of vital nutrients like zinc, iron and the B vitamins.

Are you a rice addict? Going rice-less may not be easy but you can go rice-less. Eating less rice could be lot easier than you think. Here are some strategies that you can pursue in your quest to eat less rice:

Eat less rice-cut your rice by half.

Barry Sears, author of the Zone Diet, advises 'eating rice like spice'. Instead, increase your fruits and vegetables. Take more lean meats and fish. You can even take more eggs and nuts.

Have 'riceless' meals.
Take no rice or wheat at say, breakfast. Go for eggs instead.

Go on 'riceless' days.
Go 'western' once a week.

Take no rice and breads for one day every week.
That can't be too difficult. Appreciate the richness of your food. Go for taste, colours and smells. Make eating a culinary delight. Enjoy your food in the original flavours.

Avoid the salt shaker or ketchup.
You will automatically eat less rice.

Eat your fruit dessert before (Yes! No printing error) your meals.
The fibre rich fruits will 'bulk up' in your stomach. Thus, you will eat less rice and more fruits.

It's your life. Decide what you want to eat! But eat less rice!

POWER OF ONION



A friend of mine told me a story about when he was a kid he was in the hospital & nearly dying. His grandmother came to the hospital & told a family member to go buy her a large onion & a new pair of white cotton socks. She sliced the onion open then put a slice on the bottom of each of his feet & put the white cotton socks on him. In the morning when he awoke they removed the socks. The slices of onion were black & his fever was gone. The following story that someone sent to me might have some truth in it & we are going to try it this winter.
In 1919 when the flu killed 40 million people there was this Doctor that visited the many farmers to see if he could help them combat the flu. Many of the farmers and their family had contracted it and many died.

The doctor came upon this one farmer and to his surprise, everyone was very healthy. When the doctor asked what the farmer was doing that was different the wife replied that she had placed an unpeeled onion in a dish in the rooms of the home, (probably only two rooms back then). The doctor couldn't believe it and asked if he could have one of the onions and place it under the microscope. She gave him one and when he did this, he did find the flu virus in the onion. It obviously absorbed the bacteria, therefore, keeping the family healthy.
Now, I heard this story from my hairdresser in AZ. She said that several years ago many of her employees were coming down with the flu and so were many of her customers. The next year she placed several bowls with onions around in her shop. To her surprise, none of her staff got sick. It must work.. (And no, she is not in the onion business.)
The moral of the story is, buy some onions and place them in bowls around your home. If you work at a desk, place one or two in your office or under your desk or even on top somewhere. Try it and see what happens. We did it last year and we never got the flu.
For flu cure:
cut both ends off an onion put one end on a fork and then place the forked end into an empty jar...placing the jar next to the sick patient at night. It said the onion would be black in the morning from the germs...sure enough it happened just like that...the onion was a mess and I began to feel better.
Onions and garlic placed around the room saved many from the black plague years ago. They have powerful antibacterial, antiseptic properties.
One more thing, never store cut onions and consume the next day.
_Received from an unknown friend thro' email

PARENTS ARE PRECIOUS.



This was narrated by an IAF pilot at
a Seminar recently on Human Relations :
Venkatesh Balasubramaniam (who works for IIT) describes how his gesture of booking an air ticket for his father, his maiden flight, brought forth a rush of emotions and made him realize that how much we all take it for granted when it comes to our parents.
"My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never traveled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same. In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on Jet Airways. The moment I handed over the tickets to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the baggage check-in and asking for a window seat and waiting restlessly for the security check-in to happen. He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him experience all these things.

As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant a great deal to him. When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me. But later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life. As a child, how many dreams our parents have made come true. Without understanding the financial situation, we ask for cricket bats, dresses, toys, outings, etc. Irrespective of their affordability, they have catered to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes? Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us? Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have to give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they failed to see when they were young. It is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life is complete.

Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they would have felt at those moments. Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and
just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care needs to be given to our parents and elders. Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I would want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small dream. I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes."

Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes, too.
Let us take care of our parents. THEY ARE PRECIOUS.

what are you missing in life


Something Is Missing After Attaining The Best,
Of Things We Once Desired In Our Lives,
There Is A Feeling Of Missing Out On Something Really Important ,
Which Nags Us All The Time , Even Wondered What It Is?
That Feeling Of Empriness Which Is So Predominant In Our Lives
Often Makes Us Question The Reason Of Our Existence -
Why Am I Living? For Whom Should I Live?,
Our Mind Is Clogged By These Thoughts ,
Often Leaving Us With A Feeling , Of Helplessness And Frustation.
Nothing Interests Us Any More, Not Fame , Fortune, Family Nor Friends
Our Life Is Stagnated, We Work Tirelessly To Attain What We Have ,
But It's Of No Use ,
To Us It Doesn't Interest Us Any More.
Regardless Of The Status We Hold In Society,
This Kind Of Confusion Does Occur In Every One Lives ,
Have We Ever Wondered What Is It That We Are Missing In Our Highly Contened Life? ,
We Ever Try To Seek That, Running From Pillar To Post ,
We Fail To Understand What Exactly Is Not Present In Our So Fulfilled Life.

I Think The Reason For This " Vacuum" Syndrome Is The Fact That We Miss God ,
While We Are Growing Up As An Individual In Every Aspect We Forget To ,
Thank The Almighty For The Smallest Of Small Mercies He Bestows Upon Us.
His Presence Is Completely Erased From Our Lives ,
So Our Belief In The Presence Of God Diminishes , Over A Period Of Time ,
Subsequently The Place Is Empty, Creating A Huge Vacuum In Us Forever.
Being Thankful Is A Way Of Appreciating ,
The Goodness Of Life, Most Of The Time We
Enjoy And Appreciate The Good Things In Life,
But Fail To Thank The One Who Provided Them ,
This Kind Of Behavior Precitates A Feeling Of Guilt And Eats At Us All The Time.

Nudge The Balance



A 100 year-old woman died after living a very long dignified life. When she met God, she asked Him something that had really bothered her IN HER ENTIRE LIFE.
"If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created equal, why do people treat each other so badly?"
God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us.
It is only through these lessons that we learn about life, people and our relationships with God.
This confused the woman, so God began to explain:
"When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always what they seem.
The truth is often far beneath the surface.
Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know what is in their hearts.
Remove your own masks to let people know who you really are.

When someone steals from you, it teaches you that nothing is forever.
Always appreciate what you have.
You never know when you might lose it.
Never take your friends or family for granted because today, and sometimes only this very moment, is the only guarantee you may have.

When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can; it's the one thing that you are sure to have forever.

When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike.
When you encounter people who are different from you, do not judge them by how they look or act. Instead, base it on the contents of what is in their hearts.

When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that the person will love you back.
But don't turn your back on love because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings you will make up for all of your past hurts times a thousand fold.

When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes.
When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is often the most difficult and painful of life's experiences, but it is also the most courageous thing a person can do.

When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting temptation is Man's greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your resistance against all temptations.
By doing so, you will be rewarded with an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.

When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil.
Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be.
Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.

When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control."

Upon hearing the Lord's wisdom, the old woman became concerned that there are no lessons to be learned from man's good deeds. God replied that Man's capacity to love is the greatest gift He has. At the root of kindness and love, and each act of love also teaches us a lesson.

The woman's curiosity deepened. God, once again began to explain:
"When someone loves us, it teaches us love, kindness, charity, honesty, humility, forgiveness, acceptance, and all of these can counteract all the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.

When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or more hurting? More comfort or more pain? More joy or more sadness? Each one of us has the power over the balance of the love in the world. Use it wisely!"

Moral: Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in the right direction!