Saturday 26 November 2011

The Never End Night


A Man Walked All Through The Night , Searching For Himself, He Looked Up To The Sky Asking The Lord , "What Should I do "? 

The Lord replied , My Beautiful Child , It Is Not Me You Need To Find , It Is Yourself".
This Frustrated The Man, He Looked To The Ground And kept Walking...
His Feet Were Sore And Swollen And He Was Very Tired , But He Walked On...
He Came Upon A Canyon He Wanted To Cross , But There Was No Bridge...
He Looked To The Sky Again , Asking Lord,
How Am I Supposed To Cross This Canyon?"
The Lord Replied , My Dear Son , I Know Your Feet Are Sore..
I Also Know You're Tired , But If You Want To Cross This Canyon , You Will Have To Walk To The Bottom And Up The Other Side"., This Really Frustrated The Man, He Cursed The Lord For Not Helping Him...
The Lord Replied , Son , It Is Men Like You That Have No Courage Or Will To Walk , You Expect Me To Carry You,Well , My Son I Will Walk With You Not Carry You.
I Willl Guide You , Not Take You For It Is You Who Has To Find Yourself.
So Take My Hand And Walk On."
The Man Walked All Through The Night
With No Strength At All , But Now He Had
Courage...

The Man Looked To The Lord And Said , Lord It Has Been Many Nights , But I Now See The Sun , It Is Now Thar I am At Peace With Myself".
The Lord Replied , "My Beautiful Child , You Have Faced Many Challenges On Your Journey
And Overcame Each Of Them..
You Have Found What You Are Looking For,
Be Free And Sound , Stay Within Yourself...

Eat Less Rice!



An Interesting Article I read in web:
The human body was never meant to consume rice! You see, our genes have hardly changed in more than 30,000 years. However, our food choices and lifestyle have changed dramatically. The caveman would hardly recognize our food or way of life.

Caveman food was never cooked as fire was not yet tamed. Thus, he ate only those foods that you can eat without treatment with or by fire. He ate fruits, vegetables, fish (sushi anyone:), eggs, nuts and meat. Yes, even meat! You can even eat meat raw if you were starving in the forest. You have the necessary enzymes to digest meat.

However, rice, like wheat and corn, cannot be eaten raw. It must be cooked. Even if you were starving in the desert, you cannot eat rice in the raw form.. This is because we do not have the system of enzymes to break rice down. You were never meant to eat rice. To make matters worse, you not only eat rice, but also make it the bulk of your food.

In some parts of Asia, rice forms up to 85% of the plate. Even if you take rice, keep it to a minimum. Remember, it is only for your tongue - not your body. Actually, rice and other grains like wheat and corn are actually worse than sugar. There are many reasons:

Rice becomes sugar - lots of it!
This is a fact that no nutritionist can deny: rice is chemically no different from sugar. One bowl of cooked rice is the caloric equal of 10 teaspoons of sugar. This does not matter whether it is white, brown or herbal rice. Brown rice is richer in fibre, some B vitamins and minerals but it is still the caloric equal of 10 teaspoons of sugar. To get the same 10 teaspoons of sugar, you need to consume lots of kangkong-10 bowls of it.

Rice is digested to become sugar.
Rice cannot be digested before it is thoroughly cooked. However, when thoroughly cooked, it becomes sugar and spikes circulating blood sugar within half an hour-almost as quickly as it would if you took a sugar candy. Rice is very low in the 'rainbow of anti-oxidants. '

This complete anti-oxidant rainbow is necessary for the effective and safe utilization of sugar. Fruits come with a sugar called fructose. However, they are not empty calories as the fruit is packed with a whole host of other nutrients that help its proper assimilation and digestion.

Rice has no fibre.
The fibre of the kangkong fills you up long before your blood sugar spikes. This is because the fibre bulks and fills up your stomach. Since white rice has no fibre, you end up eating lots of 'calorie dense' food before you get filled up. Brown rice has more fibre but still the same amount of sugar.

Rice is tasteless-sugar is sweet.
There is only so much that you can eat at one sitting. How many teaspoons of sugar can you eat before you feel like throwing up? Could you imagine eating 10 teaspoons of sugar in one seating?

Rice is always the main part of the meal.
While sugar may fill your dessert or sweeten your coffee, it will never be the main part of any meal. You could eat maybe two to three teaspoons of sugar at one meal. However, you could easily eat the equal value of two to three bowls (20-30 teaspoons) of sugar in one meal. I am always amused when I see someone eat sometimes five bowls of rice (equals 50 teaspoons of sugar) and then asks for tea tarik kurang manis!

There is no real 'built in' mechanism for us to prevent overeating of rice:
How much kangkong can you eat?
How much fried chicken can you eat?
How much steamed fish can you eat?
Think about that!

In one seating, you cannot take lots of chicken, fish or cucumber, but you can take lots of rice. Eating rice causes you to eat more salt. As rice is tasteless, you tend to consume more salt-another villain when it comes to high blood pressure. You tend to take more curry that has salt to help flavor rice. We also tend to consume more ketchup and soy sauce which are also rich in salt.

Eating rice causes you to drink less water.
The more rice you eat, the less water you will drink as there is no mechanism to prevent the overeating of rice. Rice, wheat and corn come hidden in our daily food. As rice is tasteless, it tends to end up in other foods that substitute rice like rice flour, noodles and bread. We tend to eat the hidden forms which still get digested into sugar.

Rice, even when cooked, is difficult to digest.
Can't eat raw rice? Try eating rice half cooked. Contrary to popular belief, rice is very difficult to digest. It is 'heavy stuff'. If you have problems with digestion, try skipping rice for a few days. You will be amazed at how the problem will just go away.

Rice prevents the absorption of several vitamins and minerals.
Rice when taken in bulk will reduce the absorption of vital nutrients like zinc, iron and the B vitamins.

Are you a rice addict? Going rice-less may not be easy but you can go rice-less. Eating less rice could be lot easier than you think. Here are some strategies that you can pursue in your quest to eat less rice:

Eat less rice-cut your rice by half.

Barry Sears, author of the Zone Diet, advises 'eating rice like spice'. Instead, increase your fruits and vegetables. Take more lean meats and fish. You can even take more eggs and nuts.

Have 'riceless' meals.
Take no rice or wheat at say, breakfast. Go for eggs instead.

Go on 'riceless' days.
Go 'western' once a week.

Take no rice and breads for one day every week.
That can't be too difficult. Appreciate the richness of your food. Go for taste, colours and smells. Make eating a culinary delight. Enjoy your food in the original flavours.

Avoid the salt shaker or ketchup.
You will automatically eat less rice.

Eat your fruit dessert before (Yes! No printing error) your meals.
The fibre rich fruits will 'bulk up' in your stomach. Thus, you will eat less rice and more fruits.

It's your life. Decide what you want to eat! But eat less rice!

POWER OF ONION



A friend of mine told me a story about when he was a kid he was in the hospital & nearly dying. His grandmother came to the hospital & told a family member to go buy her a large onion & a new pair of white cotton socks. She sliced the onion open then put a slice on the bottom of each of his feet & put the white cotton socks on him. In the morning when he awoke they removed the socks. The slices of onion were black & his fever was gone. The following story that someone sent to me might have some truth in it & we are going to try it this winter.
In 1919 when the flu killed 40 million people there was this Doctor that visited the many farmers to see if he could help them combat the flu. Many of the farmers and their family had contracted it and many died.

The doctor came upon this one farmer and to his surprise, everyone was very healthy. When the doctor asked what the farmer was doing that was different the wife replied that she had placed an unpeeled onion in a dish in the rooms of the home, (probably only two rooms back then). The doctor couldn't believe it and asked if he could have one of the onions and place it under the microscope. She gave him one and when he did this, he did find the flu virus in the onion. It obviously absorbed the bacteria, therefore, keeping the family healthy.
Now, I heard this story from my hairdresser in AZ. She said that several years ago many of her employees were coming down with the flu and so were many of her customers. The next year she placed several bowls with onions around in her shop. To her surprise, none of her staff got sick. It must work.. (And no, she is not in the onion business.)
The moral of the story is, buy some onions and place them in bowls around your home. If you work at a desk, place one or two in your office or under your desk or even on top somewhere. Try it and see what happens. We did it last year and we never got the flu.
For flu cure:
cut both ends off an onion put one end on a fork and then place the forked end into an empty jar...placing the jar next to the sick patient at night. It said the onion would be black in the morning from the germs...sure enough it happened just like that...the onion was a mess and I began to feel better.
Onions and garlic placed around the room saved many from the black plague years ago. They have powerful antibacterial, antiseptic properties.
One more thing, never store cut onions and consume the next day.
_Received from an unknown friend thro' email

PARENTS ARE PRECIOUS.



This was narrated by an IAF pilot at
a Seminar recently on Human Relations :
Venkatesh Balasubramaniam (who works for IIT) describes how his gesture of booking an air ticket for his father, his maiden flight, brought forth a rush of emotions and made him realize that how much we all take it for granted when it comes to our parents.
"My parents left for our native place on Thursday and we went to the airport to see them off. In fact, my father had never traveled by air before, so I just took this opportunity to make him experience the same. In spite of being asked to book tickets by train, I got them tickets on Jet Airways. The moment I handed over the tickets to him, he was surprised to see that I had booked them by air. The excitement was very apparent on his face, waiting for the time of travel. Just like a school boy, he was preparing himself on that day and we all went to the airport, right from using the trolley for his luggage, the baggage check-in and asking for a window seat and waiting restlessly for the security check-in to happen. He was thoroughly enjoying himself and I, too, was overcome with joy watching him experience all these things.

As they were about to go in for the security check-in, he walked up to me with tears in his eyes and thanked me. He became very emotional and it was not as if I had done something great but the fact that this meant a great deal to him. When he said thanks, I told him there was no need to thank me. But later, thinking about the entire incident, I looked back at my life. As a child, how many dreams our parents have made come true. Without understanding the financial situation, we ask for cricket bats, dresses, toys, outings, etc. Irrespective of their affordability, they have catered to all our needs. Did we ever think about the sacrifices they had to make to accommodate many of our wishes? Did we ever say thanks for all that they have done for us? Same way, today when it comes to our children, we always think that we should put them in a good school. Regardless of the amount of donation, we will ensure that we will have to give the child the best, theme parks, toys, etc. But we tend to forget that our parents have sacrificed a lot for our sake to see us happy, so it is our responsibility to ensure that their dreams are realized and what they failed to see when they were young. It is our responsibility to ensure that they experience all those and their life is complete.

Many times, when my parents had asked me some questions, I have actually answered back without patience. When my daughter asks me something, I have been very polite in answering. Now I realize how they would have felt at those moments. Let us realize that old age is a second childhood and
just as we take care of our children, the same attention and same care needs to be given to our parents and elders. Rather than my dad saying thank you to me, I would want to say sorry for making him wait so long for this small dream. I do realize how much he has sacrificed for my sake and I will do my best to give the best possible attention to all their wishes."

Just because they are old does not mean that they will have to give up everything and keep sacrificing for their grandchildren also. They have wishes, too.
Let us take care of our parents. THEY ARE PRECIOUS.

what are you missing in life


Something Is Missing After Attaining The Best,
Of Things We Once Desired In Our Lives,
There Is A Feeling Of Missing Out On Something Really Important ,
Which Nags Us All The Time , Even Wondered What It Is?
That Feeling Of Empriness Which Is So Predominant In Our Lives
Often Makes Us Question The Reason Of Our Existence -
Why Am I Living? For Whom Should I Live?,
Our Mind Is Clogged By These Thoughts ,
Often Leaving Us With A Feeling , Of Helplessness And Frustation.
Nothing Interests Us Any More, Not Fame , Fortune, Family Nor Friends
Our Life Is Stagnated, We Work Tirelessly To Attain What We Have ,
But It's Of No Use ,
To Us It Doesn't Interest Us Any More.
Regardless Of The Status We Hold In Society,
This Kind Of Confusion Does Occur In Every One Lives ,
Have We Ever Wondered What Is It That We Are Missing In Our Highly Contened Life? ,
We Ever Try To Seek That, Running From Pillar To Post ,
We Fail To Understand What Exactly Is Not Present In Our So Fulfilled Life.

I Think The Reason For This " Vacuum" Syndrome Is The Fact That We Miss God ,
While We Are Growing Up As An Individual In Every Aspect We Forget To ,
Thank The Almighty For The Smallest Of Small Mercies He Bestows Upon Us.
His Presence Is Completely Erased From Our Lives ,
So Our Belief In The Presence Of God Diminishes , Over A Period Of Time ,
Subsequently The Place Is Empty, Creating A Huge Vacuum In Us Forever.
Being Thankful Is A Way Of Appreciating ,
The Goodness Of Life, Most Of The Time We
Enjoy And Appreciate The Good Things In Life,
But Fail To Thank The One Who Provided Them ,
This Kind Of Behavior Precitates A Feeling Of Guilt And Eats At Us All The Time.

Nudge The Balance



A 100 year-old woman died after living a very long dignified life. When she met God, she asked Him something that had really bothered her IN HER ENTIRE LIFE.
"If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created equal, why do people treat each other so badly?"
God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us.
It is only through these lessons that we learn about life, people and our relationships with God.
This confused the woman, so God began to explain:
"When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always what they seem.
The truth is often far beneath the surface.
Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know what is in their hearts.
Remove your own masks to let people know who you really are.

When someone steals from you, it teaches you that nothing is forever.
Always appreciate what you have.
You never know when you might lose it.
Never take your friends or family for granted because today, and sometimes only this very moment, is the only guarantee you may have.

When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can; it's the one thing that you are sure to have forever.

When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike.
When you encounter people who are different from you, do not judge them by how they look or act. Instead, base it on the contents of what is in their hearts.

When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that the person will love you back.
But don't turn your back on love because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings you will make up for all of your past hurts times a thousand fold.

When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes.
When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is often the most difficult and painful of life's experiences, but it is also the most courageous thing a person can do.

When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting temptation is Man's greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your resistance against all temptations.
By doing so, you will be rewarded with an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.

When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil.
Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be.
Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.

When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control."

Upon hearing the Lord's wisdom, the old woman became concerned that there are no lessons to be learned from man's good deeds. God replied that Man's capacity to love is the greatest gift He has. At the root of kindness and love, and each act of love also teaches us a lesson.

The woman's curiosity deepened. God, once again began to explain:
"When someone loves us, it teaches us love, kindness, charity, honesty, humility, forgiveness, acceptance, and all of these can counteract all the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.

When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or more hurting? More comfort or more pain? More joy or more sadness? Each one of us has the power over the balance of the love in the world. Use it wisely!"

Moral: Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in the right direction!

LOOKING AFTER THE GARDEN



There was a hermitage where an ascetic lived with some disciples. A nine year old boy was the youngest disciple there. One day the old ascetic told the little boy, “I am going out for a few days. I have given all the boys certain duties to do, while I am away. You are in charge of this garden. Look after it nicely.”
Ten days later the ascetic came back. He found that the garden and its little caretaker both looked weak and unhappy.
He made the boy sit near him and asked him, “Did you look after the garden in my absence?”
The boy nodded his head and said, “I got up early in the morning and worked all day. I even slept in the garden, so that no one would enter and damage anything. I did not allow anyone to break any flowers.”
The Ascetic said, “You spent the whole day looking after the garden? Tell me, what all did you do?”
Boy: Gurudev, I cleaned all the leaves with my Angavastra (shawl). I wiped the dust off all of them. I removed all the ants and caterpillars that crawled on them.
The ascetic listened patiently as the little boy went on.
Boy: Gurudev, I cleaned all the branches and removed the dead leaves. I smelt each flower one by one. I even sprinkled Itra (perfume) on the flowers that did not smell good. I sang songs to the little plants and told them that Gurudev would be coming soon. I wiped the dust off all the fruits and kept guard all day, so that the birds would not peck at the fruits and damage them.
Ascetic: My child, I can see that you have been working very hard, you must be very tired. The boy lowered his tear filled eyes and did not speak a word. The master held his hand softly.
Ascetic: Son, did you water the garden?
Boy: No Gurudev, I did not.
Ascetic: My child, you have taken care of the outward appearance of the plants. You have cleaned and polished them diligently. You have even removed all the insects from the plants. But you did not provide nourishment for them. You did not think of what is within the plants.
It was not important to dust the leaves and branches. Dust does no harm to them. Even the ants and all the crawlers do not damage the plant. They are a part of nature. The plants are used to them. The birds too normally take their share out of nature’s bounty. You did not notice that the leaves looked dry and droopy. You did not feel that the ground looked parched. You did not see that the grass was turning dry and yellow. Did you try to find out why everything looked so droopy and weak?
This is what we also do. We spend hours on our outward appearance. We spend loads of money to buy good clothes, jewellery, cosmetics, perfumes etc. We are concerned about only the outwardly issues. Do we pause to think about what we need for our inner self? The thing that is not visible, that is most important. Concentrate on that. That is the most valuable part of us.

DRUNKEN DRIVE


I went to a party Mom,
I remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mom,
So I drank soda instead.

I really felt proud inside, Mom,
The way you said I would.
I didn't drink and drive, Mom,
Even though the others said I should.

I know I did the right thing, Mom,
I know you are always right.
Now the party is finally ending, Mom,
As everyone is driving out of sight.

As I got into my car, Mom,
I knew I'd get home in one piece.
Because of the way you raised me,
So responsible and sweet.

I started to drive away, Mom,
But as I pulled out into the road,
The other car didn't see me, Mom,
And hit me like a load.

As I lay there on the pavement, Mom,
I hear the policeman say,
"The other guy is drunk," Mom,
And now I'm the one who will pay.

I'm lying here dying, Mom....
I wish you'd get here soon.
How could this happen to me, Mom?
My life just burst like a balloon.

There is blood all around me, Mom,
And most of it is mine.
I hear the medic say, Mom,
I'll die in a short time.

I just wanted to tell you, Mom,
I swear I didn't drink.
It was the others, Mom.
The others didn't think.

He was probably at the same party as I.
The only difference is, he drank
And I will die.

Why do people drink, Mom?
It can ruin your whole life.
I'm feeling sharp pains now.
Pains just like a knife.

The guy who hit me is walking, Mom,
And I don't think it's fair.
I'm lying here dying
And all he can do is stare.

Tell my brother not to cry, Mom.
Tell Daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven, Mom,
Put "GOOD BOY " on my grave.

Someone should have told him, Mom,
Not to drink and drive.
If only they had told him, Mom,
I would still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter, Mom.
I'm becoming very scared.
Please don't cry for me, Mom.
When I needed you, you were always there.

I have one last question, Mom.
Before I say good bye.
I didn't drink and drive,
So why am I the one to die?

-anonymous

SUCCESS AND FAILURES


How Do You Look At Failure
Failure , they say is the best teacher,
We learn and have more confidence in what weknow through trial and error, which onetime or another has resulted in failure, You don't have to accept your failure if what you really want to achtieve success.
For every successful achievement , there have been one or more failure.
But those who we call successful are those who refuse to accept failure and believe success is the other side of failure
The incandescent light was invented after 1OOO failure , Assuming he had stopped after he tried 999 times without the desire result, what would have been the result of such effort?
Any time you see products and new inventions , think in trem of failure that are not accepted.Moreover , everything in a microform today is a result of failure not accepted..

Anytime your effort is not bringing a desired result , you don't have to call it a failure
Call it a Challenge, What is the difference between the two ?
One is Negative the other is Positive
one Motivates , the other Demotivates.
What you need is postive thinking and motivative to attain success, Failure is an end
thing, Challenge is an open thing, Failure means there is no way out , no alternative but a challenge is a question mark asking another way out of the situation an alternative solution to the problem, the job at hand.
Keep dreaming keep moving that is the solution to success.
A wise man once said if you cannot fly run,
If you cannot run walk, If you cannot walk crawl, Just keep on moving.
If you fall down you have to get up and start moving
If not other people will step on you toward their achievement, What you call failure and abandon is what someone will step into with just a little additional effort to reach achtievement
So my friends never give up
STEEVE

GRATITUDE

A vizier had served his master for some thirty years and was known and admired for his loyalty, truthfulness and devotion to God. His honesty, however, had made him many enemies in the court, who spread stories of his duplicity and perfidy. 

They worked on the Sultan day in and day out until he too came to distrust the innocent vizier and finally ordered the man who had served him so well to be put to death. 

In his realm, those condemned to death were tied up and thrown into the pen where the sultan kept his fiercest hunting dogs. The dogs would promptly tear the victim to pieces. 

Before being thrown to the dogs, however, the vizier asked for one last request. “I would like ten days’ respite,” he said, “so that I can pay my debts, collect any money due to me, return items people have put in my care, and share out my goods among my family and my children and appoint a guardian for them.” 

After receiving a guarantee that the vizier would not try to escape, the sultan granted his request. 

The vizier hurried home, collected one hundred gold pieces, then paid a visit to the huntsman who looked after the sultan’s dogs. He offered this man one hundred gold pieces and said, “Let me look after the dogs for ten days.” The huntsman agreed. 

For the next ten days the vizier cared for the beasts with great attention, grooming them well and feeding them handsomely. By the end of the ten days, they were eating out of his hand. 

On the eleventh day the vizier was called before the sultan, the charges were repeated, and the sultan watched as the vizier was tied up and thrown to the dogs. Yet when the beats saw him, they ran up to him with wagging tails. They nibbled affectionately at his shoulders and began playing with him. 

The sultan and other witnesses were amazed, and the sultan asked the vizier why the dogs had spared his life. The vizier replied, “I have looked after these dogs for ten days. The sultan has seen the result himself. I have looked after you for thirty years, and what is the result? I am condemned to death on the strength of accusations brought by my enemies.” 

The sultan blushed with shame. He not only pardoned the vizier but gave him a fine set of clothes and handed over to him the men who slandered his reputation. The noble vizier set them free and continued to treat them with kindness.

WHO I AM

I am Not My Scars 

I Know you see my pains 

Reflection Through the window of my eye 

Every let down , misconception , every hurt , and every lie... 

I try to cover up, yet my nakedness still shows. 

You see me in my truest form, 

Iam vulnerable and exposed. 

Sometime the phantom of my past , 

Appears , though I try to forget , 

Even When I hide it in the darkness, I still see its silhouette. 

So why do I regret...? 

These events are the fabric of who I've come To be , every instance like a fiber woven in my life's 

Tapestry, I can only look back for wisdom , I must let this be my strength but even I have yet 

To discover the true extent of its 

Length , I have only gone so deep, 

On The surface it hurts so much 

When I feel my ugliness visible. 

I just want to cover up 

But these memories , the pain from my past and what I see... 

This is only an illusion , not the definition of Me, Iam not my downfalls, and I am not my mistakes, 

Yet when they look at me this is all they seem to take. 

But look at me, look into my soul..... look at Who I really am, 

Not the scars that clearly show. 

I have remind myself who I am every day, Becaues everyone and everything tries to lead my mind astray, they want me to believe , 

I am who they see me to be.... 

They try to show me what I've 

Overcome as if it it's still me. 

Will I live up to be the , 

Conceptions as they made or will I, 

Make my own path 

Let The past lie where it may 

See I am not my scars 

My scars are just the proof 

That I have healed from. 

Be kind to yourself 

LOVE

In silence as the Universe conceived, 
In silence doth the heart of man seek out 
That other heart to rest on; 
Nature’s soul Yearns ceaselessly to give its speechless calm 
Unto her restless children as they roam 
Far from that central place which is their home. 
Wouldst know thy Mother Nature face to face? 
Wouldst hear her silent heartbeats? 
Close thine ears 
And still they senses; 
wouldst thou feel her arms Enfold they being? 
Thou must give thyself 
In uttermost abandon to her will 
That she may teach thee the one truth--be still! 
Be still--and from the Silence shall arise 
A mem’ry of forgotten mysteries. 
A healing peace descending on thy soul 
Shall bear it up to regions beyond words 
Where thou shalt learn the secrets of the earth, 
Of wind and flame and how the stars have birth. 
Then shalt thou know thy heritage of joy; 
Borne on the pinions of the Bird of Life, 
Tuned to the rhythm of revolving spheres, 
Feeling with all that breathes, with all that strives 
For union with its prototype above, 
The silent comforter whose name is--Love. 
-Frances Poile

KINDNESS

Give kindness and it keeps going. 
Give kindness and it continues long past the original expression. 
Kindness inspires more kindness. 
A little bit of kindness can go a long, long way. 
But why stop with just a little? Offer great kindness, again and again, and you truly change the world. 
Think of how good it feels when someone is kind to you. 
Make it your goal to pass that feeling along to others every chance you get. 
Give kindness and something amazing happens. 
Your own strength, confidence and joy will increase. 
Add some kindness to your world today. 
And see the positive benefits as it continues to grow beyond you. 

KUMARI’S DEATH



There was a young woman called Kumari who lived in Dharmapuri. She lived a very normal life, like all householders. She spent her time in housekeeping, cooking, washing etc. She never had any time for other things. One night while she was asleep, she died. After her death, she felt that she was being pulled out for her physical body by two huge and strong looking men, who took her to a ‘light.’ There they repeated an account of all that she had done in the twenty four years of her life on Earth. They said that she had never given anything to anyone, except a shawl that she had once given to a lady who was a relative of her husband. The men who were reading out the account of her life said, “The only thing we can give her now is this shawl, for that is just about the only thing she ever gave to anyone.”

Suddenly a voice came from the ‘light’, “This is not the woman I told you to bring, why have you brought her?” The men replied, “Lord, you told us to bring Kumari from Dharmapuri village.” “No, no! There is another woman in the same village by the name ‘Kumari.’ She is a weaver. It was her time to die. Go immediately and return this soul. This Kumari has a long life to live, whereas that one’s time is over.”

In an instant the attendants took the soul back. When they reached her house, they saw that Kumari’s husband and children were crying, sitting near her dead body. As per instructions, the soul was put back into the dead body and to everyone’s utter surprise, Kumari sat up and rubbed her eyes, as if she had just had a long, long dream.

Just at that moment, the other Kumari, who lived a few houses away, was rolling out chappatis for breakfast with the rolling pin in her hand. She just fell down in the kitchen and breathed her last!

Dear Readers, sometimes truth is stranger than fiction. There are many people who have had ‘near-death’ or ‘after-death’ experiences. They come back to life to tell their strange stories that are difficult to believe. This is a true story. The lady in question is old now, but she is still alive. After this unfathomable experience, she realized the importance of giving. Then she donated all kinds of things to those in need. She donated food, clothes, utensils, shoes, gold etc. Whenever there was an opportunity to give, she rose to the occasion.

you may or may not believe this story to be true. But the lesson from it should not be overlooked. Everyone in this world may not be as fortunate as you or us. We must resolve to set aside some portion, be it a fixed sum or a tiny percentage of our monthly earnings for extending a helping hand to those who are not as fortunate as we are.

Swami says, “Good and bad are self-made, the effects of what was done in previous lives.” If you do good to others, you may not get anything in return. But, you must continue to do good anyways!"

GOLD OR SILVER


There once lived a great mathematician in a village outside Ujjain, India . He was often called by the local king to advice on matters related to the economy. His reputation had spread as far as Taxila in the North and Kanchi in the South. So it hurt him very much when the village headman told him, "You may be a great mathematician who advises the king on economic matters but your son does not know the value of gold or silver."

The mathematician called his son and asked, "What is more valuable - gold or silver?" "Gold," said the son. "That is correct. Why is it then that the village headman makes fun of you, claims you do not know the value of gold or silver? He teases me every day. He mocks me before other village elders as a father who neglects his son. This hurts me. I feel everyone in the village is laughing behind my back because you do not know what is more valuable, gold or silver. Explain this to me, son."
So the son of the mathematician told his father the reason why the village headman carried this impression. "Every day on my way to school, the village headman calls me to his house. There, in front of all village elders, he holds out a silver coin in one hand and a gold coin in other. He asks me to pick up the more valuable coin. I pick the silver coin. He laughs, the elders jeer, everyone makes fun of me. And then I go to school. This happens every day. That is why they tell you I do not know the value of gold or silver."

The father was confused. His son knew the value of gold and silver, and yet when asked to choose between a gold coin and silver coin always picked the silver coin. "Why don't you pick up the gold coin?" he asked. In response, the son took the father to his room and showed him a box. In the box were at least a hundred silver coins. Turning to his father, the mathematician' s son said, "The day I pick up the gold coin the game will stop. They will stop having fun and I will stop making money."

The bottom line is...

Sometimes in life, we have to play the fool because our seniors and our peers, and sometimes even our juniors like it. That does not mean we lose in the game of life. It just means allowing others to win in one arena of the game, while we win in the other arena of the game. We have to choose which arena matters to us and which arenas do not.

AS YOU SOW AS YOU REAP


"Good morning" said a woman as she walked up to the man sitting on ground.

The man slowly looked up. This was a woman clearly accustomed to the finer things of life. Her coat was new. She looked like she had never missed a meal in her life. His first thought was that she wanted to make fun of him, like so many others had done before.

"Leave me alone," he growled... To his amazement, the woman continued standing. She was smiling -- her even white teeth displayed in dazzling rows.

"Are you hungry?" she asked.

"No," he answered sarcastically. "I've just come from dining with the president.. Now go away."

The woman's smile became even broader.
Suddenly the man felt a gentle hand under his arm. "What are you doing, lady?" the man asked angrily. "I said to leave me alone.

Just then a policeman came up. "Is there any problem, ma'am?" he asked..

"No problem here, officer," the woman answered. "I'm just trying to get this man to his feet. Will you help me?"

The officer scratched his head. "That's old Jack. He's been a fixture around here for a couple of years.. What do you want with him?"

"See that cafeteria over there?" she asked. "I'm going to get him something to eat and get him out of the cold for awhile."

"Are you crazy, lady?" the homeless man resisted. "I don't want to go in there!" Then he felt strong hands grab his other arm and lift him up.

"Let me go, officer. I didn't do anything.."

"This is a good deal for you, Jack," the officer answered. "Don't blow it."

Finally, and with some difficulty, the woman and the police officer got Jack into the cafeteria and sat him at a table in a remote corner. It was the middle of the morning, so most of the breakfast crowd had already left and the lunch bunch had not yet arrived.

The manager strode across the cafeteria and stood by his table.

"What's going on here, officer?" he asked."What is all this, is this man in trouble?"

"This lady brought this man in here to be fed," the policeman answered.
"Not in here!" the manager replied angrily. "Having a person like that here is bad for business."

Old Jack smiled a toothless grin. "See, lady. I told you so. Now if you'll let me go. I didn't want to come here in the first place."

The woman turned to the cafeteria manager and smiled. "Sir, are you familiar with Eddy and Associates, the banking firm down the street?"

"Of course I am," the manager answered impatiently. . "They hold their weekly meetings in one of my banquet rooms."
"And do you make a goodly amount of money providing food at these weekly meetings?"
"What business is that of yours?"

I, sir, am Penelope Eddy, president and CEO of the company."
Oh.....
"The woman smiled again.. "I thought that might make a difference."

She glanced at the cop who was busy stifling a laugh. "Would you like to join us in a cup of coffee and a meal, officer?"
"No thanks, ma'am," the officer replied. "I'm on duty."

"Then, perhaps, a cup of coffee to go?"
"Yes, ma'am. That would be very nice."
The cafeteria manager turned on his heel. "I'll get your coffee for you right away, officer."

The officer watched him walk away. "You certainly put him in his place," he said.
"That was not my intent... Believe it or not, I have a reason for all this."

She sat down at the table across from her amazed dinner guest. She stared at him intently.
"Jack, do you remember me?"
Old Jack searched her face with his old, rheumy eyes.. "I think so -- I mean you do look familiar."

"I'm a little older perhaps," she said.. "Maybe I've even filled out more than in my younger days when you worked here, and I came through that very door, cold and hungry."

"Ma'am?" the officer said questioningly. He couldn't believe that such a magnificently turned out woman could ever have been hungry.
"I was just out of college," the woman began. "I had come to the city looking for a job, but I couldn't find anything.

Finally I was down to my last few cents and had been kicked out of my apartment. I walked the streets for days. It was February and I was cold and nearly starving. I saw this place and walked in on the off chance that I could get something to eat."

Jack lit up with a smile. "Now I remember," he said. "I was behind the serving counter. You came up and asked me if you could work for something to eat. I said that it was against company policy."

"I know," the woman continued. "Then you made me the biggest roast beef sandwich that I had ever seen, gave me a cup of coffee, and told me to go over to a corner table and enjoy it. I was afraid that you would get into trouble. Then, when I looked over and saw you put the price of my food in the cash register, I knew then that everything would be all right."

"So you started your own business?" Old Jack said.
"I got a job that very afternoon. I worked my way up. Eventually I started my own business that, with the help of God, prospered.." She opened her purse and pulled out a business card. "When you are finished here, I want you to pay a visit to a Mr. Lyons. He's the personnel director of my company. I'll go talk to him now and I'm certain he'll find something for you to do around the office."

She smiled. "I think he might even find the funds to give you a little advance so that you can buy some clothes and get a place to live until you get on your feet. If you ever need anything, my door is always open to you.".

There were tears in the old man's eyes. "How can I ever thank you?" he asked.
"Don't thank me," the woman answered. "To God goes the glory.. He led me to you."

Outside the cafeteria, the officer and the woman paused at the entrance before going their separate ways... "Thank you for all your help, officer," she said.

"On the contrary, Ms. Eddy," he answered. "Thank you. I saw a miracle today, something that I will never forget. And..And thank you for the coffee."

Have a Wonderful Day. May God Bless You Always and don't forget that when you "cast your bread upon the waters," you never know how it will be returned to you. God is so big He can cover the whole world with his Love and so small He can curl up inside your heart.

When God leads you to the edge of the cliff, trust Him fully and let go. Only 1 of 2 things will happen, either He'll catch you when you fall, or He'll teach you how to fly!

God closes doors no man can open & God opens doors no man can close..

POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

This is amazing, RANDY PAUSCH died of pancreatic cancer in 2008, but wrote a book ‘The last lecture” before then, one of the bestsellers in 2007. What a legacy to leave behind… 
In a letter to his wife Jai and his children, Dylan, Logan, and Chloe, he wrote this beautiful "guide to a better life" for his wife and children to follow. 
May you be blessed by his insight. 
POINTS ON HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE 

Personality: 
1. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about. 
2. Don't have negative thoughts of things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment 
3. Don't over do; keep your limits 
4. Don't take yourself so seriously; no one else does 
5. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip 
6. Dream more while you are awake 
7. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.. 
8. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner of his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness. 
9. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others. 
10. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present 
11. No one is in charge of your happiness except you 
12. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. 
Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime. 
13. Smile and laugh more 
14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree. 

Community: 
15. Call your family often 
16. Each day give something good to others 
17. Forgive everyone for everything 
18. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6 
19. Try to make at least three people smile each day 
20. What other people think of you is none of your business 
21. Your job will not take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch. 

Life: 
22. Put GOD first in anything and everything that you think, say and do. 
23. GOD heals everything 
24. Do the right things 
25. However good or bad a situation is, it will change 
26. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up 
27. The best is yet to come 
28. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful 
29. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it 
30. If you know GOD you will always be happy. So, be happy. 

While you practice all of the above, share this knowledge with the people you love, people you school with, people you play with, people you work with and people you live with. 
Not only will it enrich YOUR life, but also that of those around you.